We miss him

December 20, 2004 at 9:51 pm 2 comments

On Vicki Gabereau, Patrick Lane was on. He was the author of the bestseller, “There is a Season: A Memoir in a Garden.” He spent a year in his garden writing about his alcoholism. I want to read that book. My father was an alcoholic and I want to read the life of an alcoholic from his own perspective.

When sis came back from the Philippines, Mama confirmed with her if she really wanted to bring Papa’s remains (bones) here in Winnipeg. My aunt has mentioned it to Mama on the phone. Mama told sis that it would be better if we left his remains in the Philippines because that’s his hometown. I also added that all his brothers, sister and relatives are there. We sure all miss him. Sis and I missed out on having a father. And I’m sure Mama misses him too.

On the last weekend of every month, Brother Jorge always asks those celebrating wedding anniversaries to stand up after mass and he blesses every couple that would. I think it was about a year and a half ago, in June, when Mama wanted to get up. I whispered to her, “But ma, patay na si Pa. You’re no longer married.”


Entry filed under: Alcoholism, Memory Lane, Roadblocks.

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2 Comments Add your own

  • 1. One word meme « Journey to Honeyville  |  October 5, 2007 at 9:33 pm

    […] are you not good at? Organizing • Muffin? Banana-nut • One of your wish list items? “There is A Season: A Memoir in A Garden” by Patrick Lane (I’ve been wanting to have this book for a couple of years now.  I finally ordered a copy last […]

  • 2. There is a Season « n i c e h e a r t  |  June 8, 2008 at 3:06 pm

    […] first heard about this book on the Vicki Gabereau show when Lane was on. Lane is an award-winning Canadian poet. He was an […]


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